The Top Ten Things I Learned as a Newly Published Author

 

by Teresa McCarthy

 

      When I was asked to write an article, I had no idea what I was going to write about, especially when Kelle reminded me that she needed my article by the end of August. End of August? Gulp.

      I smiled and said, “Okay, how long?”  She smiled and said something like 1500 words.  Yeow! 

      I started thinking about all the reasons I wouldn’t get it done.  Okay...I could do this.  I could put myself in manuscript mode.  Six pages at 250 words apiece would do it.  Now, what the heck would I write?  What if I did the top ten things like David Letterman on his show?  Let’s see, 1500 words divided by 10 would be 150 words a topic.  I could do that, uh, couldn’t I? 

      My mind was racing.  I had forgotten that I had my second book coming out in August with at least three book signings.  I also had three kids going to college and if anybody’s gone through that, I think the entire process could be a novel in itself! 

      Not to mention that I was on deadline with another book and realized I should have started this article a long time ago, when first asked.  But I kept putting it off, thinking I’d do it later.  Hmmm.  That’s why time management is the first on my list of “The Top Ten Things I Learned as a Newly Published Author.” 

      (Warning: The following tidbits are not in any particular order due to, um, time management of said author.)

 

 1.    Manage Your Time!   With my family I have to find a time to write that fits into our schedule.  Mornings work well, especially when the kids are in school.

       Set a long term writing goal.  Decide what you want to write and when you want to have it done.  You have to decide how long it will take you to finish the book.  Remember there are many things that may interfere: family, work, illness, friends.  Give yourself a little buffer, just in case.

      Set daily goals.  Decide how many pages you are going to write that day.  Or set a certain amount of time you will write.  Schedule how this will work into your long term goal so that you will finish your project.  Give time for editing and re-editing!

 

 2.    Be Assertive.   Sometimes saying no to volunteering at school or church functions is hard for me.  But I pick and choose what I want to do these days.  I just don’t have the time to do everything I did before.

      Remember, you can say no.  This is your life.  Know what you want to write.  Keep your goals in mind.  Don’t let people put you down because you aren’t published.  Feel confident in your writing.  Everything is subjective.  Critiques are good, but they can also squelch the spirit.  Stay positive.  Remember editors and agents are people too.  But also remember that time is precious.  List your priorities during the day, and be willing to say no.  Stay off the phone and turn off the television until you meet your daily goal.

 

 3.    You Can’t Please Everyone.  I quickly discovered that some reviewers love my work and some do not.  It is the same with editors, agents and readers.  Just like grammar school and high school, not everyone is going to like you or your work for one reason or another.  It’s the same way with writing.  This is a subjective business.  Everyone has his or her opinion.  If you pay attention to the negative thinkers, you will be miserable.  Pay attention to your heart.  Pay attention to your readers.  And write!

 

 4.    Exercise And Eat Right.  I get great ideas when I’m exercising.  

      Life can become quite hectic for anyone, let alone a writer on a deadline.  Eating right helps your brain work better.  Let’s face it: sometimes chocolate is a writer’s best friend, but it can be a little dangerous at times.  Exercise helps the body mentally and physically.  Just thirty minutes each day can help.

 

 5.    Realize This Is A Business.   I treat my writing as a business.

     If you want to get published and stay published, you have to look at writing as a business and not just a hobby.  Back up your work.  Keep receipts for your taxes. Have a workplace where you write.  Do what works for you, but make it a place where distractions are at a minimum.

 

 6.    Have Friends Outside The Writing Business.  Besides family commitments, I try to go out to lunch or dinner with my friends a few times a month.  

      Life is a gift.  Don’t forget your friends or your family.  Yes, deadlines sometimes mean barricading the doors and eating oatmeal for dinner.  But good friends are hard to find.  Keep them a part of your life. They help you balance life outside of writing.

 

 7.    Study The Market.  I believe I made my first sale by networking, going to conferences, joining writing groups and listening to what editors wanted.

      The publishing world is subjective.  Look at the books on the shelves at the bookstore.  Find out what editor publishes what you write.  Listen to what agents have to say.  And read, read, read! 

 

 8.    Insulate Yourself.   At the national conference last year, one best-selling author gave me some good advice, “Try to write the best book you can and don’t compare yourself to others.”

      Learn from other writers, but don’t compare your writing style or your books as better or worse.  You are unique. Everyone has their own experiences and their own story to tell.  Do what works for you.  If you listen to everyone that has an opinion, you will go crazy.  Filter out the negative thinkers and listen to the positive ones.  Writing is not easy, but surrounding yourself with positive people sure helps. 

 

 9.    Don’t Lose Sight Of What Is Important In Life.   My family comes first.

      Writing is great and having a reader say he or she loved your book is wonderful.  But everything can be gone tomorrow.   If writing is your livelihood, pick and choose your projects carefully.  Don’t put off the things you need to do with the people you love.  Use your time wisely and remember what is really important in life.  

 

 10.   Don’t Give Up!!!!  I had many rejections before I sold. 

      Did you know that Thomas Edison tried 10,000 times before he discovered the light bulb?  A rejection isn’t a failure—because you tried! Keep trying!  Keep writing!  Writing is a process and even rejections can tell you something about your manuscript.  Things begin to happen when preparation meets opportunity.  Be persistent.  Don’t give up! 

 

      These are some of the things I learned along the way.  However, as you can see by the end of the article, 150 words per topic didn’t work out at all. But that’s how writing is.  It never works out the way you planned.  It’s a journey of the imagination where fact becomes fiction and fiction becomes fact.  Sometimes it’s unpredictable, just like

people.

      Yet every person has something special to offer.  As one of my good friends would say, “If not you, then who?”

      If you have the passion, if you have the drive, if you have the tools, you can write a book!  So just do it!  And happy writing!

 

Along with her fiction writing, Windy City member Teresa McCarthy has researched patents, worked on piping safety for nuclear power plants, and written technical manuals.  The mother of four, she earned degrees in Psychology and Mechanical Engineering at University of Illinois-Urbana.  Her first book The Rejected Suitor was released this past April.  To Marry A Marquess hit the bookshelves in August, and her next Regency-set novel The Wagered Bride will be available in December 2004.